As a veteran in the lifestyle your input is appreciated by many including myself. Little Kaninchen always has the right to speak to me directly however. During our discussion I have granted her the privilege to speak openly and without retribution, however I have not eliminated all of the hierarchy among us. Therefore, in order for this lifestyle to function properly for and myself there have been times that I have had to improvise and create scenarios that work for us.
In fact, for a new submissive and a new Dominant to succeed communication is paramount! We have been still increasing and broadening the scope of the sites by hosting national gatherings for the last 3 years, each one becoming more successful. The blog came alive and many women daily were writing asking me about my experience and how they may achieve it. Fox for such a stimulating provocative post and subject! My journey opened my eyes to my relationship. Fox for this great insightful post Buck, Welcome Aboard! An attitude such as this is setting the relationship up for sure failure. I am still her Dominant and she will speak respectfully to me.
We have helped thousands and in turn we ask you to stay diligent in your growth in order to help new members gain their footing by sharing your experiences. I suspect that our position plays into effect, she is kneeling, her head is in my lap and I have her by her hair and the nape of her neck. These dynamics are always used in a safe, sane and consensual manner. This society believes in the pay it forward motto. The best thing is the harder you both work, the harder you both get to play.
In fact, for a new submissive and a new Dominant to succeed communication is paramount! Both partners must stay engaged and growing in their roles. Something that seems to take a back seat in relationships, I know it did in ours. To verify that she is being properly nourished and to discover any unacknowledged concerns or fears that she may have. I initially created downtime to provide my submissive a safe sanctuary where she could communicate openly and honestly with me. You could not be more correct in saying it must be consistent and made a paramount priority.
All the time finding the secret garden where we all desire to roam. It is important to remember that you are providing her safe sanctuary to speak honestly without retribution. This site will show you how to achieve the experiences that you yearn for, enhancing your marriage rather than harming it. This was more then the relationship I had read about.
Our downtime is initiated with me sitting in my leather tufted chair in our bedroom. I had to find a way to have the fairytale. Work, raising a family, paying bills, and life in general seems to get in the way. So we began the website called LittleKaninchen. Like any Nobel Prize winning scholarly piece of work or journalism would be to have many trusted sound sources at the end, right? This discussion should be as a Dominant and submissive and not as a husband and a wife, professional almost. One such scenario is our Downtime.
I was ready to rekindle what I was scared may have already been lost in my marriage. It can be done on a regular basis, daily, nightly, weekly, whatever time frame that you feel is appropriate. She can speak to me as downtime or at anytime that she feels a need. I utilize downtime every few days in our relationship. I thank you for pointing this out and tip my hat to you and applaud.
Many aspects regarding Dominance and submission found online are not intended for a healthy married relationship. Downtime allows us to stay in touch with one another as we grow along our journey. We request that the atmosphere stay positive and professional and that it fosters a team like attitude. When she speaks, I listen to her and see it from her perspective and I no longer need to be thinking of how to defend my position while she is speaking, I actually listen.
These dynamics are always used in a safe, sane and consensual manner. If she needs to talk to you about anything… You must listen to her, really listen. Thank you for your insight and participation. I no longer feel threatened by her input or feel as though I need to defend my position.